Wednesday 8 January 2014

SOME SIX KEYS TO HAVING A GREAT RELATIONSHIP

6 KEYS TO A GREAT RELATIONSHIP


1-FRIENDSHIP: Try to be your partner best friend. No matter what happens, be a friend first, and a lover later. 

2-TRUST: The key element to any relationship is trust, so before starting this beautiful journey with your partner, learn to trust in all circumstances. That means before you propose or say yes you are sure you can trust him/her. If according to number 1, you are friend enough you will be able to tell if you can trust him/her. Yes.. When you see someone and feel like "asking her out" its ok. Just know its to get to know eachother more.

3-UNDERSTANDING: Try to figure out each other and work out on your differences. There are going to be many differences, but it’s mutual compromise and sacrifice which will make the relationship beautiful. Again friendship will make this more easy.

4-COMMUNICATION: Try to talk and convey your message to your spouse understandably. Let your spouse know about how good/bad your day was along with reminding them how you feel for them. Communucation must never be compromised. Getting tired of talking and sharing together is a sure sign that its getting over if not over already.

5-HONESTY: Always speak the truth, never lie or hide things in fear or for fear that your partner won’t understand. Give your partner a chance to understand you. This actually follow Trust... If you must be trusted you must be Honest!

6-FREEDOM: Give your spouse space and freedom to decide for themselves. Don’t take away the personal time of your spouse. Yes you discuss all things but you must not make the decision for him/her on individual issues. The last thing your partner want is a BOSS that tells them what to do always!

When you have practiced all of the above, then trust God and you will see how beautiful your relationship will be.
Editing and addition done  by oluthomas.

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