How To Be The Perfect Boyfriend (Part 1)

How To Be The Perfect Boyfriend

(Part 1)

 

 

Being a perfect boyfriend ain’t so easy but you can work towards it. To be a good boyfriend, you need to be able to blending on somethings...

 

Accept Yourself: This is the most important phase as usual. You need to accept who you are. Know what you can do and your limits. Love yourself the way you are. Know your standards and live right. Develop a good self esteem and be ready to sacrifice more for your partner. Act the way you want to be treated. Be ready to love your partner like your mother and sisters. This goes a long way in preparing your mind towards a relationship.

 

Always show your support: The best thing you can do for the one you love is to show your support. Your partner may share the same dream with you or slightly different from yours but you must be ready to support them and give them the push they need. You can show support by being available, listening attentively and showing your interest in the things she has to tell you. When you spend time together, make an effort to be present and be attentive to her needs. By being supportive, you’ll help to strengthen the sense of security and reciprocity in the relationship. And if you support her goals and dreams, then she will support yours in turn. Be there when she has to study for any upcoming exams, or any career- oriented programs, or when she is stressed about anything that is coming up that can affect her future.

 

Always Compliment her: One thing I have realized is that a lady always love to hear her boyfriend say he loves her. You should compliment your girlfriend as often as you can without making her feel smothered. You should both compliment her looks, letting her know that she looks cute whether she is all dressed up or just hanging out in casual clothes, and her personality. That way, she will know that you care about her appearance and what is on the inside. Go beyond the ordinary statements.

 

For example, don’t just say, “You look nice.”Instead, say “That really makes your eyes shine,” or “Your haircut really suits the shape of your face.” The more specific you are, the more unique and appreciative the compliment. Don’t stop telling her you love her. It really means a lot to them.

 

Written by Ilesanmi St. John


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