“I
LOVE YOU… SO?”
Why this post?
“I Love You,” is a
simple word that is presupposes to be understood by everyone, even babies, but,
sincerely speaking I believe that the 3 words are the most misunderstood, and
or most under-understood.
If I may ask you
as a reader what does I Love means to you?
Yes take a sec. to
think. But while you are thinking let me tell you what I believe “I love you”
is and does means. And how best to use it, and accept it when it is used on us.
Sincerely, the
phrase is just a STATEMENT of
feelings and opinion of someone about you. It might be wrong or right, that is
left for you to find out.
There are other
situations that it might means a response, from a grateful heart to actions or
words received.
Therefore, I Love You is a response to what one
feels and thinks about you, your actions, words, kindness etc.
The problem is, “I
Love You” is not an objective statement, it is very subjective, and can change
if and when what necessitate the feelings of expressing it in the first place
changes. This means I Love You need
to be maintained and sustained either by what necessitate it in the first place
or by other things. For example, the centre of attraction that might
necessitate a man to say the words might be something related to the physical,
(complexion, shape etc) but it might be sustain by the lady’s show of other
sides to her like intelligence, diligence etc.
Many have make
this error… in trying very hard initially to gain this response from the other,
while lacking the will to continually pursue those things in order to continue
to receive those responses. This is what is later known as Hypocrisy or
Pretense.
How best to use I Love You is to be ready to continually
do those things that you are doing that best guarantee you a positive result in
response. The gifts must not stop, the time spending and sharing must not
reduce if not increased, the thoughtful things and selflessness in taking care
first of him/her must not change in the future to the ME with capital letters.
This is the
absolute responsibility of saying those 3 words!
This is what is
called COMMITMENT!
So if you are not
ready don’t say it!
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