10
Qualities of A Desirable Man
In a society flooded with articles, social media updates, dating
advice magazines, and hardly ever enough mental down-time to slow down and
reset — we are left overloaded on information about “what to do,” but hardly
enough insight on who to be.
Especially as men, all of the “advice” out there is how to talk
to women, how to approach them, how to treat them – and you will find many of
those articles on this website, as well. But regardless of what you do or what
you say, the thing that will speak the loudest for the longest is who you are.
So when our goal is to become a man who women want to
be around without persuasion, how do we approach it?
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A desirable man is
well-spoken.
One of the qualities I have worked the hardest to develop in
myself is the ability to speak effectively. To be able to convey emotions,
intentions, thoughts and ideas clearly and concisely will provide infinite
benefits to your life.
Not only will you be less likely to be misunderstood, but people
will actually enjoy conversing with you. Additionally, in matters of #dating
and #relationships, there are few things more helpful than an extensive
vocabulary. If you don’t think women respond positively to how things are worded,
then you’ve never heard of “50 Shades of Grey.”
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A desirable man pays
attention.
Perhaps even more important than how well you speak, is how well
you listen. Many men carry the misconception that listening is a passive action
and requires no effort. You just sit there while the other person talks.
What women understand is that, #listening is more active than we
realize. It requires effort to actually absorb what is being
said, remember it, and then discuss it later.
Whether we are speaking of personal or professional relationships, developing
your ability to effectively listen will make you more desirable to be around.
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A desirable man has goals
and ambitions.
Mature women understand that they should never plan a future
with a man who has no future plans for himself. A man who knows what he wants
out of life and has the ambition to go after it, will forever be more attractive
than he who is passively content in mediocrity.
Never allow yourself to be average — it’s just as close to the
bottom as it is to the top.
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A desirable man is kind
towards everyone.
No woman will want to be with a man who is kind to her when the
circumstances call for it, but is rude or mean to others around him, people who
he meets in public, and certainly not to children or animals.
A desirable man will be kind to others because of who he is, not because of who they are.
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A desirable man has
compassion.
To have compassion is to be able to tie your emotions to those
of others. To feel sorrow when they do. To lend them your strength to overcome
pain. To connect yourself to another human being on a deeper level.
The willingness and ability to open yourself to this is a
quality of a desirable man because it shows you will provide comfort in
difficult times, which we all face. A relationship is not always sunshine and
rainbows. The road of life is a windy one, and a woman needs to be confident
that you can navigate it.
...to be continue...
This
article originally appeared on James Michael Sama’s
Blog.
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