THE ROLE OF FATHERS IN THEIR DAUGHTER'S MARRIAGE
I was once discussing with my Dad & he said something that I
researched & find to be true... He said, "I have always believe that
a mother can not train her daughter to be a good wife... Only a father
can!" Truly the best a woman can help her daughter to become is a good
mother and a home-maker.
A father is a man & has the same fundamental need of any man. No matter what, his fundamental need is same with other men, & therefore, he can express the need of a man to her girl than a woman/mother will.
As infants we take in a complete sensory experience of our everyday surroundings & this shapes our perception of normalcy. If there was a Dad or other male caregiver in your early life he probably set the first model of how a relationship with man would be. So a woman's early relationship with Dad, who is usually the first male object of her love shapes her conscious & unconscious perceptions of what she can expect and what is acceptable in a romantic partner - not only physical characteristics
A father's influence in his daughter's life shapes her self-esteem,sel
Sometimes, people wonder why an adolescent girl takes to like her father more than her mother in most cases? While scientifically it can be said that opposite attracts but majorly I have come to understand that a father appreciate the emerging nature of his daughter more than the mother would. Note: the appreciation of the opposite sex weigh more.
Therefore, I believe this should be the basis for a father to be able to instill the best way to be the woman a man would want to have all his days in her.
Fathers, nature is presenting to you, the opportunity of not only making your daughter happy, but securing her future happiness, with her man, thereby raising a happy loving generation.
* Dads needs to spend time with their infant Daughter, taking care of her physical needs & supporting her mom. And once the little lady starts toddling around, its essential that Dad get down on the floor - on her level - & plays with her.
* Dads should focus on cultivating a trusting relationship so that their daughters feels secure talking with them about what's going on in their lives.
* Dads should take time to give the manly views and train their daughters in understanding men's basic needs and expectation from a woman as a wife.
The utmost aim is to make their daughters a woman every man will want to make his wife. No one could do that better than you. Their mother could only make them home-makers and mothers, only you can teach them how to be a good wife!
#oluthomas
#oluthomas_shari
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Please kindly share with all fathers and Daughters... It is not too late for you to learn.
A father is a man & has the same fundamental need of any man. No matter what, his fundamental need is same with other men, & therefore, he can express the need of a man to her girl than a woman/mother will.
As infants we take in a complete sensory experience of our everyday surroundings & this shapes our perception of normalcy. If there was a Dad or other male caregiver in your early life he probably set the first model of how a relationship with man would be. So a woman's early relationship with Dad, who is usually the first male object of her love shapes her conscious & unconscious perceptions of what she can expect and what is acceptable in a romantic partner - not only physical characteristics
A father's influence in his daughter's life shapes her self-esteem,sel
Sometimes, people wonder why an adolescent girl takes to like her father more than her mother in most cases? While scientifically it can be said that opposite attracts but majorly I have come to understand that a father appreciate the emerging nature of his daughter more than the mother would. Note: the appreciation of the opposite sex weigh more.
Therefore, I believe this should be the basis for a father to be able to instill the best way to be the woman a man would want to have all his days in her.
Fathers, nature is presenting to you, the opportunity of not only making your daughter happy, but securing her future happiness, with her man, thereby raising a happy loving generation.
* Dads needs to spend time with their infant Daughter, taking care of her physical needs & supporting her mom. And once the little lady starts toddling around, its essential that Dad get down on the floor - on her level - & plays with her.
* Dads should focus on cultivating a trusting relationship so that their daughters feels secure talking with them about what's going on in their lives.
* Dads should take time to give the manly views and train their daughters in understanding men's basic needs and expectation from a woman as a wife.
The utmost aim is to make their daughters a woman every man will want to make his wife. No one could do that better than you. Their mother could only make them home-makers and mothers, only you can teach them how to be a good wife!
#oluthomas
#oluthomas_shari
https://
Please kindly share with all fathers and Daughters... It is not too late for you to learn.
Your views and thoughts are most welcome...
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