“I have a confession to make.
I’m
dating someone even though I’m
married.
She’s an incredible girl.
She’s
beautiful, smart, cunning, strong, and
has an immensely strong faith in
God.
I love to take her out to dinner,
movies, local shows, and always tell
her how beautiful she is.
I can’t
remember the last time I was mad at
her for longer than five minutes, and
her smile always seems to brighten
up my day no matter the
circumstances.
Sometimes she will visit me at work
unannounced, make me an
incredible lunch, or even surprise
me with something she personally
baked.
I can’t believe how lucky I am
to be dating someone even though I
am married. I encourage you to try it
and see what it can do for your life.
Oh! Did I mention the woman I am
dating is my wife? What did you
expect?
Just because you’re married, doesn’t
mean your dating life should end.
I need to continue to date my wife
even after I marry her.
Pursuing my
wife shouldn’t stop just because we
both said, “I do.” Way too many
times do I see relationships stop
growing because people stop taking
the initiative to pursue one another.
Dating is a time
where you get to
learn about
someone in a
special and unique
way. Why would you want that to
ever stop? It shouldn’t. Those
butterflies you got on the first date
shouldn’t stop just because the
years have passed. Wake up each day
and pursue your spouse as if you are
still on your first few dates. You will
see a drastic change for the better in
your relationship.
When it comes to any relationship,
communication and the action of
constant pursuit is key. Nobody
wants to be with someone who
doesn’t want to pursue them whole-
heartedly.
I encourage you to date your spouse,
pursue them whole-heartedly, and
understand that dating shouldn’t
end just because you said, “I do.”
- Jarrid Wilson”
I AND MY LADY MADE THAT DECISION LONG AGO... GOD HELP US.
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