NOISES IN MARRIAGE
Noises occur when things are not in
order. It is a sign of forceful
expression especially when
impression is not conveyed in a
specified manner; which end result
is depression. We make noises in
marriage when we are tensed off.
Singles, hear this! If marriage is built
on a wrong foundation there can
never be decorum in that marriage,
things will not fall in pleasant places,
and there will be unnecessary noises
everywhere.
There is need for two people that
are intending to get married to
properly shape themselves and
understand what marriage is all
about before entering into it. “And
when it was been built, the house
was built of finished stone made
ready beforehand. And there was not
heard in the house a hammer or an
axe, or any iron tool, while it was
being built.” 1king6:7
Husband, you can stop unnecessary
noises in your marriage by trying to
listen to your wife. Hear her out by
respecting her opinion. Put your
love in action in her life. Wives, you
can also put end to unnecessary
noises if you can stop nagging with
your husband. Let your respect and
submission be made manifest in his
life.
CAUSES OF NOISES IN MARRIAGE: 1.
Disagreement
2. Disturbed mind/ emotional torture
3. Prolonged challenges
4. Confusion
5. Lack of marriage standard e.g trust,
transparency, fidelity etc
6. Misunderstanding
EXAMPLES OF NOISES IN MARRIAGE:
1. Resentment
2. Nagging
3. Hostility etc
HOW TO OVERCOME NOISES IN
MARRIAGE
Try to understand your spouse’s
interpretation of love. Sometimes,
what we give as love may not be
what our spouse need as love.
Material things are no replacement
for human, emotional love I beseech
you lets settle every unnecessary
noises in our marriage before we
cross over to another year.
May the
GOD of Heaven grant you
understanding and make your home
another paradise on earth.
Written by Igbagbodayo Ojo.
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