A BETTER COMPLIMENT THAN 'I LOVE YOU' IS 'I TRUST YOU'!

Apart from my salvation & growth in Christ, i discover there is a deep hunger in me, that is very scarce to get today, & that may be why i'm still single or will still be for next year or so! While growin up, lack of confidence & fear makes me the last born of the devil when it comes to Lying...

 Thank God for Dad... who helped me out when we cut the deal that whatever i do, if i tell the truth before being discovered, i wont be punished. So at home, i became good, but out there, outside home i'm punished severely for saying the truth...

The most hurting of all is the psychological state that makes me feel i am not TRUSTWORTHY... When i look back and take my needs to account, i discovered that what pain me most and/or my deepest need from any individual is TRUST!

I want people to trust me and never question the sincerity of my intentions... But that is difficult ti get because of what goes on there in the world. People like me have been duped of trust to the point that a glaring truth is still being vehemently probed! so, many others with such experience find it real hard to trust... Not only me, but everything!

Coming to relationship, a lady told me over 10yrs ago when i decide to start a relationship with her that, "won kin tan mi o..." meaning, i mustn't be deceived!

Last week another lady told me that, she consider, "I Trust u" as a better compliment than "I luv U"... But the question is do we have an environment that makes it easier to trust?

What I've discover is that:

1. You can't be trusted if u don't live a CONSISTENT true life.

2. You can't trust others if you, yourself, dont live a true life! (what you don't demand of your life, u don't expect to find in others)

3. People will always make exceptions about you if you CONSISTENTLY give them reasons to!

4. Many others want to be truthful, but their out-there experience don't allow them too... Therefore, i will help as many that want to be truthful to be, if only with me... 

Conclusion...

I will live truthfully, giving people no chance to doubt my sincerity; I will help people be at ease with me and to deal with me truthfully; i will not be discouraged to be truthful or trust others, when duped or cheated in the course of being truthful or trusting others.

Your views are most welcome...