RESEARCH REVEAL JANUARY AS THE MONTH WITH HIGHEST DIVORCE RATE AND WHY
January is a strain for most people.
It’s dark and the festive lights don’t
disguise this anymore. You’re back at
work and the next holiday may be
some way off. You’ve just had to
spend a large amount of time with
your family. This has consequences.
Lawyers have a worse than normal
return to work after the Christmas
break: they go back to stacks of
divorce papers. So many couples
seek the help of professionals to
have their marriage dissolved after
the strains of the Christmas season
that the first Monday of the first
working week of the year is known
among lawyers as Divorce Monday.
Lawyers ascribe the sudden surge in
divorce work to the release of
tension after temporary truces for
the sake of the family over the
Christmas season.
But it’s doubtful that lawyers, or
their clients, know how long the
history of the time period is.
This may appear to be a relatively
new development (the earliest
statistics online date from 2008), but
my recent research into litigation
records surviving from the medieval
church courts in York shows that the
same pattern prevailed as far back as
the 14th century.
A third of the litigation heard by the
church court in York (which had the
power to enforce and dissolve
marriage) was initiated in the month
of January. So medieval lawyers
would have been as familiar with the
January rush to the courts as their
modern colleagues, although the
marriage disputes they helped
settle were very different.
Medieval marriage
It was incredibly easy to contract
marriage in the middle ages. All that
was needed was that a man and a
woman said the words “I marry you”
to one another. There was no need
for a priest or even witnesses, the
spoken words married them before
God. But getting out of it was more
difficult.
Unlike today, people couldn’t legally
divorce: they had to have their
marriages annulled instead. What
God had joined together could not
be seen to be put asunder by Man.
So, couples had to convince the court
that they had married someone else
previously, or that they had never
consented to the marriage in the
first place.
Most people were well aware about
the law regarding marriage and in
many cases it is clear that sometimes
both they and the courts engaged in
an elaborate deception to allow
couples to separate or to marry. The
clear deception meant that the court
had to enforce marriage in most
cases.
Only in cases of really extreme
domestic violence did the church
court step in as a kind of heavy-
handed marriage counsellor,
attempting first to reconcile the
litigants, and, if that was
unsuccessful, by granting the
spouses the right to live in separate
households (but not to have sexual
relations with anyone) and by
providing alimony for the wife.

Against this background, it is perhaps
ironical that most medieval
illuminated calendars show the
peasants’ days in the month of
January being taken up with
activities such as repairing
household items and mending
fences in the fields. The court
records of medieval York suggest
that, just like today, the jolly family
activity of “mending fences” was not
the first thing on the minds of
everyone directly after Christmas.
By Frederik Pedersen, University of Aberdeen
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