THE MOST BEAUTIFUL
ONES ARE NOT YET BORN!
When the book with the title the beautiful ones are not yet born was written, I always want to read, but up till now am afraid of laying my hands on it
to read. This write-up is not about the book, but ever since I have come in
contact with the title, it has always re-echoed in my mind, though it hasn’t
been too often as the past years. Thank God it has passed now, but it still
echoes in my mind, but with a different reason. You’ve got to know what it
echoed for before and what the echo is for now. Just read on, you will soon
discover…
When I was younger, I have the
opportunity of being surrounded by very great, good beautiful women. I was
loved then, and up till now it instill that sense of being loved anywhere I go
into me, that’s why I always says am loveable. I was cared for immensely by
these pretty ladies that just take me out at will, sometimes as their own
security… don’t ask me more.
I love them and I saw how they make
the guys in their lives smiles, even though I never got to see them fight, I
know in spite of the ‘fights’ they still love them… in fact all through my
childhood only one man I remembered along with these ladies. They were all over
my world, I sleep on the bed with listen to their little serious conversation,
ran little errands for them, keep little secrets and most of all, learned how
the mind of a lady works.
I was so much involved that I started
thinking dating such ladies as I’m growing older! Yes, it’s not funny! If you
would have asked me then, I would have picked one of the matured ladies. I
never get to associate with ladies of my age till much latter. Yes even in my
secondary school days, I have school mums, no other ladies… my first degree I
have another school mom… all much older than I am, plain friendship and mature
reasoning.
The thought of dating someone older
is as a result of comparing these matured ladies with my age mates, and sure, I
go for the matured. This is all well over 15yrs ago. Then one day I was so
excited and told one of them am gonna marry her, she laugh, then became so
serious.
She gently as seriously asked, ‘are you
serious?’
My reply was in the affirmative. ‘Yes!’ still
smiling sheepishly.
Her fears being confirmed, she asked, ‘why do
you want to marry me?’
Quickly, taking it as an opportunity to make my
impression, I said, ‘you are beautiful, and have been so good to me.’
She was impressed with my answer, but shook her
head and said, ‘’Seun, the beautiful
ones are not yet born!’
I was dazed, wanted to understand, but couldn’t
accept the No! What does that phrase means?
In the past few years, the phrase still hunts
me. I am now grown up, and ready to get into the market of choosing a life
partner, and to my amazement, my age group, still didn’t appeal to me as a
good choice! Yes, the much older ones are out of my mind now, because almost
all of them have been long married and the few ones remaining aren’t that
appealing. But now my mind was dangerously looking for ladies or even girls
very much younger!
This is not that am seeking my exact
age, but the age group. At that time I was seriously considering someone at
least 8yrs younger. Yes, it is not wrong and age is no barrier, but my thought
was wrong because I want someone that low in age because I found the younger
ladies from that age down particularly attractive.
In fact I tried dating a couple but
was seriously disappointed. Why? I found them low to the kind of maturity I
looked for in a wife. Don’t forget I’ve had quiet experience with matured ladies
since I was just a boy, so I have the best mature minds to compare them with.
This wasn’t a joke, but sheer futile effort, until the phrase came back to in a
more meaningful way: the beautiful ones
are not yet born. If you go for young and beautiful, you will still have to
wait for the latest young girl which will be forever!
Some ladies never seem to amuse me,
because they have a guy’s love and care, but they want more. They are not
satisfied with love, they want money and the endless things it can buy without
caring to know how important the things money cannot buy are! The most important thing in life is free. You can’t eat your cake
and have it back! Make up your mind or the more confused you become.
Mr. Man, why waste the poor girl’s
time, just because you still keep your shopping window open? And almost every
lady in the ‘market’ of choice are
beginning to wonder if you are serious buyer or window shopper! If you are
looking for the most beautiful, the one with most sexy curves and the most who
is latest… your waiting will be the life ends! When you have one, why search
for more? The more your ‘buying’ power, the more option you have the more
confused you become and you have the tendency that the more your options will
be inflated.
Make your
choice; close the window, for the beautiful ones are not yet born!
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