HOW TO BE THE PERFECT BOYFRIEND... Part II

How To Be the Perfect Boyfriend.

 

Part 2: 

 

 

Always Show Sympathy: Whatever happens to her happens to you too. You should learn to put yourself in her shoes. Be ready to feel what she feels too. If it means something to her, it means something to you. It doesn’t matter that you wouldn’t be interested in the issue if it weren’t for her––a relationship is about sharing experiences and being supportive. When she’s upset, try to put yourself in her shoes and understand where she’s coming from. Don’t just dismiss her feelings because you think it’s “not a big deal.” Sometimes, she may just want to cry and to be comforted. Don’t try to fix her problems right away — wait for her to deal with all of her emotions before being practical. If she’s upset, it’s important to ask, “Do you want to talk about it?” Make her see that you really care. And if she’s not ready to talk about it yet, don’t pry. You don’t need to force her. Always be ready to talk.

 

Be her Guardian: This deals with you acting like her father and her brother. Act like a father to her, watch over her, care for her needs in the little way you can. Act like her brother, be there to secure her. Fight for her and defend her. Most importantly, pamper her but don’t over do it because women can take things for granted too. Know when she is just being a kid and learn to act more matured at that point. Correct her with love always...

Watch out for concluding episode!!!

 

Written by Ilesanmi St. John

 

 

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