10
Qualities of A Desirable Man
continued from part 1....
A desirable man is comfortable in multiple roles.
By “roles” in this context, I mean being a driver and a
passenger in a relationship. A man who is secure in himself will have no
problem sharing the spotlight or authority with the woman in his life. In fact,
he will welcome her insight and the value she brings to each unique scenario.
He will not always have to be in charge or make every decision.
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A desirable man has a strong identity.
This is a man who knows who he is and what he stands for. His
opinions and viewpoints, while flexible, do not blow with the winds. If he has
a strong opinion about what is right, he will defend it regardless of whether
or not he is standing alone.
His “brand,” so to speak, is well defined and it is one he has
decided for himself and consistently works to improve.
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A desirable man is flexible and open-minded.
No, this does not contradict the previous point. No man should
be so steadfast in his feelings that he is closed off to them ever changing.
The world progresses, society evolves, and new information is discovered and
presented.
Nobody wants to be in an analog relationship during a digital
age. It is especially important in a relationship that both partners grow and
progress together. A man who is unable to do this will remain stagnant and be
left behind by an ambitious woman.
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A desirable man presents himself well.
Yes, looks matter. But because everyone has different tastes and
styles, fitting into a “fashion box” is not important — what’s important is
being good at whatever it is you decide to do. Portraying a positive image,
remaining well-groomed, and consistent with your personality.
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A desirable man is comfortable in all situations.
Women understand that relationships take us all places in life.
They bring us around all different scenarios, types of people, and locations.
It takes a toll on a relationship if there is constant worry about your
significant others’ ability to navigate these situations and be a chameleon.
A desirable man will hone and develop his conversational
abilities and stay well-read on world events, popular culture, and other topics
that will give him the varied knowledge to be let loose at his girlfriend’s
company’s holiday party and not flop around like a fish out of water.
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As a man, is it easy to develop all of these characteristics?
No, of course not. Am I saying that I, myself, have perfected them all? Definitely
not. But, I believe the important part is to understand how vital they
are to becoming a man who will attract the woman that he wants to be with.
In the long run, it will not be what you say to her or what you
do for her that will make her love you. It will be the man you have worked to
become.
This
article originally appeared on James Michael Sama’s
Blog.
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